Abbey, Meredith and God: A Story of Loss and Love

Abbey

Our 14-year-old dog Abbey died last month. The day after she passed away my 4-year-old daughter Meredith was crying and talking about how much she missed Abbey. She asked if we could write a letter to God so that when Abbey got to heaven, God would recognize her. I told her that I thought we could so, and she dictated these words:

Dear God,

Will you please take care of my dog? She died yesterday and is with you in heaven. I miss her very much. I am happy that you let me have her as my dog even though she got sick.
I hope you will play with her. She likes to swim and play with balls. I am sending a picture of her so when you see her you will know that she is my dog. I really miss her.

Love, Meredith

We put the letter in an envelope with a picture of Abbey and Meredith and addressed it to God/Heaven. We put our return address on it. Then Meredith pasted several stamps on the front of the envelope because she said it would take lots of stamps to get the letter all the way to heaven. That afternoon she dropped it into the letter box at the post office. A few days later, she asked if God had gotten the letter yet. I told her that I thought He had.

Yesterday, there was a package wrapped in gold paper on our front porch addressed, ‘To Meredith’ in an unfamiliar hand. Meredith opened it. Inside was a book by Mr. Rogers called, ‘When a Pet Dies.’ Taped to the inside front cover was the letter we had written to God in its opened envelope. On the opposite page was the picture of Abbey & Meredith and this note:

Dear Meredith,

Abbey arrived safely in heaven. Having the picture was a big help and I recognized her right away.

Abbey isn’t sick anymore. Her spirit is here with me just like it stays in your heart. Abbey loved being your dog. Since we don’t need our bodies in heaven, I don’t have any pockets to keep your picture in so I am sending it back to you in this little book for you to keep and have something to remember Abbey by.

Thank you for the beautiful letter and thank your mother for helping you write it and sending it to me. What a wonderful mother you have. I picked her especially for you. I send my blessings every day and remember that I love you very much. By the way, I’m easy to find. I am wherever there is love.

Love, God

 

“I’ve seen kites fly in gray skies…” — Andrea Gibson

I know you think this world is too dark to even dream in color,
but I’ve seen flowers bloom at midnight.
I’ve seen kites fly in gray skies
and they were real close to looking like the sunrise,
and sometime it takes the most wounded wings
the most broken things
to notice how strong the breeze is,
how precious the flight.

Andrea Gibson from The Moon is a Kite

Embrace What Makes You Unique — Janelle Monae

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Janelle Monae’s acceptance speech for the Young, Gifted and Black Award at the 2012 BET Awards:

“When I started my music career, I was a maid. I used to clean houses. My mother was a proud janitor. My stepfather, who raised me like his very own, worked at the post office and my father was a trashman. They all wore uniforms and that’s why I stand here today, in my black and white, and I wear my uniform to honor them.

This is a reminder that I have work to do. I have people to uplift. I have people to inspire. And today, I wear my uniform proudly as a Cover Girl. I want to be clear, young girls, I didn’t have to change who I was to become a Cover Girl. I didn’t have to become perfect because I’ve learned throughout my journey that perfection is the enemy of greatness.

Embrace what makes you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable.” – Janelle Monáe

(Note:  This is an inspiration regardless or age, gender or race.)

Thanks Obvious Magazine

Never Give Up

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When life gets you down, when hope falters, never give up the knowledge that your true nature is peace, that this moment, this now is what is real, and that you have to power to recreate your reality into the one you really want by simply changing your perspective.

Thank you PowerPlug Motivational Quotes

“Hope Smiles…”– Alfred, Lord Tennyson

“Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come / Whispering ‘It will be happier.'”  —  Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Oh, how I love finding inspirational quotes!! The best part for me is to share them and hope they bring light to all who read.  I admit, it may not be too original, so many great quotes and beautiful pictures are being sent, shared and blogged over the internet, however, that energy flows into the hearts of those that come in contact with it and I feel that energy creates a connection between us all.  That’s why I don’t mind the non-originality, it’s all about the positive energy it sends out.

Blessings,

~Simply Sammi~